For love to work, each spouse has to realize his or her freedom. And boundaries help define the freedom we have and the freedom we do not have. Marriage is not slavery. It is based on a love relationship deeply rooted in freedom. Each partner is free from the other and therefore free to love the other. Where there is control, or perception of control, there is not love. Love only exists where there is freedom. . Henry Cloud
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I believe the quote above is very true. It talks about how love is a freedom, not a slavery. When you have a freedom, you have a choice. It’s your freedom to love someone or not to love someone.

You can choose to love someone or not to love someone. The freedom to love, the freedom to be loved and the freedom from being loved are very important in a relationship. In marriage couples have to understand what roles they play in the relationship and what roles they do not play in their relationship so that they can keep their freedom.

Source: Boundaries In Marriage

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